I think my husband has communication and or memory issues. Whenever he wants me to participate in something, he usually tells me hours before. Personally, I think he weighs the pros and cons of each activity. Is it worth her being pissy with me? Is it worth her being pissy with other people? Is it worth her being weird and possibly embarrassing me? In the end, I’m usually all three because like I said, it’s last minute. For more, read here!